As we go into the week there are certain things that we should dwell upon. This week is a great time to take a little more time for YOU. This message is intended for everyone and it's about "How We Can Show Our Love". Saying it is very important but even more important is How We Show Our Love. It doesn't matter whether you are married, single, only have pets, all by yourself, etc. You can still show How To Love. Maybe it's about showing yourself how to love yourself, etc. The emphasis is the outward expression of loving which comes back to us in the form of even more love. It is a very individual thing and meant for all. Modify the words to express your particular situation.
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by Milena Sertich
"The benefits of loving others more than yourself are palpable and immediate. I cannot tell you how many times I have been in the doldrums and the cure has been helping someone else in their time of need. The reason is because acts of love or kindness require taking the focus of yourself, your worries, your needs and wants, quieting the constant chatter in your mind and feeling of lack. Instead, you begin to focus on what another person needs or wants and there is satisfaction in providing that. You become someone who gives and in giving you receive so much. It is a concept so old that it's almost comical that we don't think of it more often as a "cure for melancholy," or way to demonstrate love. But when we do, we can feel a change take place that is real and satisfying for ourselves and those who are touched by our love".
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Tell the other person that you love them
Give or get a hug
Make sure the other person feels important & respected
Kiss when people are looking
Kiss when people aren't looking
Tell the other person that you care
Hold hands
Go for a long bike ride
Give a special present
Be there when they need a friend
Spend time together
Go to see a film
Walk arm in arm in the woods
Make a special tape of love songs
Talk about your feelings
Share dreams with each other
Serve them breakfast in bed
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Sit together in the park
Take a walk together
Go out for a meal
Have a picnic
Play a game of frisbee
Give compliments
Relax in a jacuzzi
Go swimming
Just be close
Go shopping for food
Cook a meal together
Touch each other in a loving way
Do homework together
Plan and go on a trip together
Throw a party together
Bake a cake
Go to the library
Browse in a museum
Just be there
Find out what's special for the other person - and do it
Give each other a massage
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Gaze at each other
Wash each other's cars (or bikes !)
Go fishing
Talk to each other
Listen to worries
Cut each other's toenails
Choose a special favorite song
Listen to joys
Hold one another close
Catch their eye
Write one another letters
Talk on the telephone
Trust one another
Give or receive a ring
Meet each other's family
Go hiking together
Make sacrifices for each other
Send chocolates
Respect each other
Go for a moonlight walk
Place a flower on their pillow or yours
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Hide a love note where they will find it
Give each other sexy looks
Write a poem
Send flowers
Eat dinner by candlelight
Go to a concert
Watch the sunrise together
Remember anniversaries
Give each other pet names
Go sightseeing
Rent a video
Do things for each other without being asked
Propose marriage
Whisper something nice into the other's ear
Be best friends
Shampoo their hair
Introduce yourself or yourselves to someone new
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Have fun together
- Go out dancing
- Play music together
- Flirt with each other
- Laugh at something funny together
- Be faithful
- Impress each other
- Make a list of things you like about each other
- Read a book and discuss it
- Meet each other's friends
- Go horse riding
- Cook each other's favorite food
- Find out what makes each other happy
- Make presents for each other
- Call their parents and tell them You love them
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- Wash each other's hair
- Watch the sunset
- Go for a bus trip
- Have a request played on the radio
- Send a funny card
- Share your plans for the future
- Play footsie
- Share private jokes
- Think about each other
- Find out what makes the other sad
- Go skating
- Swap rings
- Share an ice-cream
- Have your picture taken together
- Make something for them, something very small and personalized
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Suggestions for the week - Have you been keeping and referring to your 3 by 5 cards? They will help tremendously. Here we go: You will notice there are 6 blocks of ways to show your love above. Get your 3 by 5 cards and on each one write all the thing referencing each block. You will now have 6 cards with all the ways to show your love. Keep them constantly with you and refer to them daily. Now for you that are truly desiring more for the soul. Write down all the ways in your journal. Don't forget to carry the journal with you constantly. I know it takes time to write everything down, don't cheat and print out the words. Write everything long hand. This technique will enable you to engrain it more in your heart.
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